Relationships

regarding the “Love Languages”

Well! I decided to take Dr. Chapman’s “Love Languages Personal Profile for singles”. 🙂 Although I had not previously looked at what the languages were, I could immediately tell that there were three that were obvious. I just didn’t use the same name. I could see the person who needed small gifts or tokens all theContinue reading “regarding the “Love Languages””

Want a good wife?

Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord. -Proverbs 19:14

Love, what is it and where does it come from

“To form a forever relationship, you will need a Love-centered marriage. The love you have at the beginning with its intensely personal quality of belonging and possessing fluctuates because it is fed by feelings, and feelings change, especially if needs and desires are not being met. But the God of Love has made his ownContinue reading “Love, what is it and where does it come from”

A Relationship with an Addict

A few days ago, I explained how I fell in love with a married man. He continuously reassured me of his divorce and the reason why it was pitifully slow was due to her needing to become a US citizen to stay here and reap of some benefits. It wasn’t until a couple of months intoContinue reading “A Relationship with an Addict”

One is the Loneliest Number?

Amen!!! This is exactly what I am saying!! And…I’ve got you beat. I have been living in my house for over five years and I “know who a couple of my neighbors are by faces, but I do not KNOW them nor do we ever chat. I believe it’s because I am single and noContinue reading “One is the Loneliest Number?”

Is this a relationship?

I fell in love with a married addict. You know this was a dark time in my life without God.

the beginning: poor decision-making, living without Christ, or both

Well, let me preface this by a little history. It seems that as long as I can remember, I had always been looking for someone to love me. Sure, I was picky. Yes, I had standards-some.

Since I suck at relationships, I won’t waste your time with advice and tidbits. Rather, I just want to share, perhaps warn, and let this just be cathartic to me and hopefully helpful to someone else. This was meant to be a category, a page, but it looks like a post. It look like somethingContinue reading “Relationships”

Is it “Ok to be alone?”

In Genesis 2:18, as God was creating the world, he said, “It is not good that man should be alone…” At first, I guess I just didn’t understand. Why would He say it is not good when everything else until that point that He had made “was good”? You see, I thought it was greatContinue reading “Is it “Ok to be alone?””