So I started this dating site……. lol, yes, I know; when one reaches middle-age, dating becomes not only difficult, but a chore. I tried to be nice and honest on my profile-which no one seems to read. I get many older men wanting to meet me, but…ugh. The other day, I was even nice enough to chat with one guy. I had mentioned that I was exhausted from long long days at work and this man had the bold audacity to tell me that it was because I “wasn’t getting none”! the hazards of trying to meet people and date.
It seems that some people cannot process the difference between being alone and being lonely. I live physically alone, but am never lonely. I believe it’s about attitude, perception, confidence, self-esteem. I frequently look around my house and smile, thanking God for such a blessing. I have a pretty nice little house, in a safe neighborhood. I’ve family who loves me, a great job, friends, and I serve an amazing Lord and Savior. So adding a partner to the mix is simply to have someone with whom I can enjoy my blessings. May you have a fabulous day and week
As far as the dating site goes, well, I won’t give up so easily. I’m sure a nice, attractive, and caring man will show up just for me. I still won’t be lonely, but I won’t be alone either— hm, I may have to schedule that in….
Cast your Cares 